Understanding feline language (2024)

Cats lack the facial expressiveness of dogs, they’re generally quieterand their behaviors can be harder to interpret—but this doesn’t mean that the feline mystique is impenetrable. You can better understand your furry friend by paying attention to their vocalizations, body postures and daily routines. In time, you may become so attuned to your kitty’s personality and habits that you’re able to detect subtle changes in theirmood and even recognize health problems before physical signs of illness appear.

Vocalizing

You'll learn a lot when you can interpret your cat's wide vocabulary of chirps and meows. They'll tell you when they're hungry, when they're feeling affectionate and if they're feeling threatened orin pain.

While some cats rarely make a peep, others won’t let you get a word in edgewise. Kittens who are handled often and well socialized may turn into more vocal adults and certain breeds, like Siameses and Abyssinians, are loquacious by nature.

Cats can also become increasingly vocal as they age. Two possible reasons for this are age-related dementia and deteriorating eyesight. A cat who feels anxious or confused may meow to seek reassurance. Hearing loss can also cause a kitty to vocalize louder than usual because they can’t determine their volume. (Any pronounced behavior change should trigger a trip to the vet to make sure your cat isn’t ill or in pain.)

  • Meowingis all-purpose; your cat may be using"meow" as a greeting, a command,an objection or an announcement. Some people have observedtheir cats walking around the house meowing to themselves.
  • Chirps and trills are how a mother cat tells their kittens to follow them. Aimed at you, it probably means your cat wants you to follow them, usually to their food bowl. If you have more than one cat, you'll often hear them converse with each other this way.
  • Purring is usually a sign of contentment. Cats purr whenever they're happy, even while they're eating. Sometimes, however, a cat may purr when they're anxious or sick, using their purr to comfort themselves, like a child sucking their thumb.
  • Growling, hissing or spitting indicates a cat who is annoyed, frightened, angry or aggressive. Leave this cat alone.
  • A yowl or howl (they sound like loud, drawn-out meows) tells you your cat is in some kind of distress—stuck in a closet, looking for you or in pain. Find your cat if they're making this noise. However, in unalteredcats, these sounds are part of mating behavior. If your cat is elderly, they may howl because they're disoriented, especially if suffering from a cognitive disorder, such as dementia.
  • Chattering, chittering or twittering are the noises your cat makes when they're sitting in the window watching birds or squirrels. It usually translates to excitement ... or they may be contemplating snack time.

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Body language

Does your cat arch their back up to meet your hand when you pet them? This means they're enjoying this contact with you. Do they shrink away under your slightest touch? Save the petting for later; they're not interested right now.

Pay attention to your cat's eyes, ears, body and tail—they're all telling you something. Here are some basic (though sometimes contradictory) clues:

Ears

  • Forward: Alert, interested or happy
  • Backward, sideways, flat ("airplane ears"): Irritable, angry or frightened
  • Swiveling: Attentive and listening to every little sound

Eyes

  • Pupils constricted: Offensively aggressive, but possibly content
  • Pupils dilated (large): Nervous or submissive (if somewhat dilated), defensively aggressive (if fully dilated), but possibly playful

Tail

  • Erect, fur flat: Alert, inquisitive or happy
  • Fur standing up: Angry or frightened
  • Held very low or tucked between legs: Insecure or anxious
  • Thrashing back and forth: Agitated; the faster the tail, the angrier the cat
  • Straight up, quivering: Excited, really happy or,if your cat hasn't been neutered or spayed, they could be getting ready to spray something

Body

  • Back arched, fur standing up: Frightened or angry
  • Back arched, fur flat: Welcoming your touch
  • Lying on back, purring: Very relaxed
  • Lying on back, growling: Upset and ready to strike

Rubbing

When your cat rubs their chin and body against you, they're telling you they love you, right? Well, sort of. What they're really doing is marking their territory. You'll notice that they also rub the chair, the door, their toys andeverything in sight. They're telling everyone that this is their stuff, including you.

Kneading

This is sometimes called "making biscuits," because the cat works their paws on a soft surface as ifthey're kneading bread dough. It's a leftover behavior from nursing, when theymassaged their mother's teats to make milk flow. Your cat does this when they are really happy.

The Flehmen response

Have you noticed times when your cat—perhaps while sniffing your shoe—lifts their head, opens their mouth slightly, curls back their lips and squints their eyes? They're not making a statement about how your shoe smells,they're gathering more information.

Your cat's sense of smell is so essential to them that they actually have an extra olfactory organ that very few other creatures have, the Jacobson's organ. It's located on the roof of their mouth behind their front teeth and is connected to the nasal cavity.

When your cat gets a whiff of something really fascinating, they open their mouth and inhale so that the scent molecules flow over the Jacobson's organ. This intensifies the odor and provides more information about the object they're sniffing.

A key to your cat's moods

Wondering if your cat is happy, meditating or having a bad day? Here's are some tips:

  • Content: Sitting or lying down, eyes half closed, pupils narrowed, tail mostly still, ears forward and purring—a really happy cat will often knead on a soft surface.
  • Playful: Ears forward, tail up, whiskers forward and pupils somewhat dilated—playing is hunting behavior; your cat may stalk their prey (a toy, a housemate or you), then crouch down with their rear end slightly raised. A little wiggle of the butt, then ... pounce! Your cat will grab their prey, bite it, wrestle it the floor and kick it with their hind feet.
  • Irritated or overstimulated: Pupils dilated, ears turned back and tail twitching or waving—your cat may growl or put their teeth on you as a warning to cease and desist. Intense play can quickly turn into overstimulation in some cats, resulting in biting and scratching.
  • Nervous or anxious: Ears sideways or back, pupils dilated and tail low or tucked between legs—your cat may slink through the house close to the floor, looking for somewhere to hide. They may turn their face to the wall to shut the world out.
  • Frightened or startled: Think Halloween cat—ears back and flat against their head, whiskers back, back arched, fur standing on end and tail erect or low. They may yowl, growl, hiss and spit.
  • Defensive: Crouched, ears flattened, whiskers back, tail between their legs or wrapped around their bodyand pupils dilated—they may meow loudly, growl, hiss and spit.
  • Angry, aggressive: Ears back, pupils very constrictedand their tail may be up or down with the fur standing on end—an aggressive cat will stare down another cat and growl or yowl until the other cat gives way. Cats don't really want to fight; they prefer standoffs, but this can progress to fighting if one of the cats doesn't back down.
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Understanding feline language (2024)

FAQs

How to understand a cat's language? ›

Growling, hissing or spitting indicates a cat who is annoyed, frightened, angry or aggressive. Leave this cat alone. A yowl or howl (they sound like loud, drawn-out meows) tells you your cat is in some kind of distress—stuck in a closet, looking for you or in pain. Find your cat if they're making this noise.

What language do cats understand the most? ›

Cats are often more receptive to the tone and rhythm of our speech than the actual words. A soft, gentle voice can be comforting and soothing to a cat, whereas a loud or angry tone can be unsettling or even frightening. It isn't really about the words, it's about the emotions and intent behind them.

How do cats say I love you in cat language? ›

Cats are really good at nonverbal communication; we just have to know what signs to look for. Slow blinks, purring, headbutts, and relaxed posture, for example, indicate that they're open to affection.

How to tell if your cat is imprinted on you? ›

Signs Your Cat Imprinted On You
  1. Purring and Kneading: A Display of Trust and Contentment. ...
  2. Following You: A Sign of Security and Attachment. ...
  3. Head Butting and Cheeking: Affectionate Gestures. ...
  4. Sleeping Near You: Indicating Trust and Comfort. ...
  5. Grooming: A Sign of Deep Affection and Bonding.
Dec 6, 2023

How to tell if a cat is play fighting with you? ›

If your cats' bodies are relaxed or their ears are pointed forward, they're likely just playing. If your cats flatten their ears, hold their ears back, or puff up their fur or tails, this is a sign that they're fighting, not playing.

What do cats hear when we talk? ›

Cats understand around 20-40 human words, and scientific reports have found that they can recognize the sound of their name. But cats associate words and distinguish between them through tone of voice and body language, rather than understanding the meaning of a word.

Do cats know their name? ›

Cats are able to recognise their own name and can even be trained to respond to it. Although cats can't understand the meaning of words like we can, they do recognise the sound of specific words and their connection with particular scenarios.

What do cats think when we meow at them? ›

Will My Cat Understand If I “Meow”? Sorry to break it to you, but human meows mean nothing to cats. At most, you can get your cat's attention and they may even appreciate your attempts to communicate by purring or even meowing back. But to most cats, human meows sound like human language.

How do cats say "I'm sorry"? ›

“Usually, cats tend to seek physical contact to apologize, meaning they intend to rectify the situation through physical interaction, such as rubbing against their owner's legs, purring, and making subtle and delicate movements on top of their human.

How do I tell my cat I love her so much? ›

How do I show my cat I love her? Show your cat some love by spending time with them: cuddling, playing, and grooming. Allow them to sleep on you and be in contact with you, and give them plenty of long, slow blinks.

How to tell what a cat's meow meaning? ›

A cat's vocal range is a canvas of emotions. The mellifluous meows signify desires for food or companionship, while the dissonant notes express requests or minor annoyances.

When you talk to cats do they understand you? ›

While cats are fluent in body language, they also understand the tone and pitch of your voice more than your actual words.

How to tell if a cat is playing with you? ›

Playful
  1. Ears. A playful cat will have their ears up. The ears will point forward, and you might think they look especially alert.
  2. Eyes. Your cat will watch you or a toy intently while playing. ...
  3. Body. Cats like to play stalking games. ...
  4. Tail. Some cats will keep their tails down while getting ready to pounce.
Aug 25, 2021

How do I tell what my cat wants? ›

A mid-pitched meow is a question from your cat, and it typically means they want something. This could be playtime, or it could mean that your cat's food bowl is empty and they're ready for their next meal. Context is always important when deciphering your cat's language.

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